Notes - Session 3

IDS 495

Leaving a Legacy

Giving and Seeking Forgiveness for the past	Leaving a legacy can be complicated because we did not have good role models when we were younger or we did not follow the good role models we had/have. Forgiveness - the relinquishing of your right to get even and stay mad at someone. Restoring a lost legacy - Life changes us; we need to forgive ourselves, be forthright with people we hurt, swallow pride, seek forgiveness.
Leaving "good tracks" for the future	The grandchildren need to see us leave clear tracks for them to follow choosing grace backing up our words with actions avoiding cynicism demonstrating faithful living love people and use things honor - the rules and guidelines in my home need to honor, rather than undermine, their parents
Making decisions based on an eternal perspective	*Epitaph...* a single phrase that captures the sum-total of your life. What epitaph will I earn?
Project ideas	Gather together as many symbols of your life's legacy as possible (i.e., photos, medals, citations, certificates, collections, letters, a well-worn book, etc.) Show them to your grandchildren and have them choose one for you to tell them about. Explain how this part of your life helped mold you into what you are today. Ask your grandchildren to choose a symbol of their accomplishments or priorities in life and to tell you about what it means to them (i.e., report card, Scouting medal, dance shoes, trophy, completed book, toy, etc.). Let them know how proud you are of them. Remind them that they are starting to develop the legacy that they will some day give to their family.